The Kama Sutra not only instructs in the
physical positions for sex, it is also a manual on preparing for the
acts of love.
Paul Mauchline, Managing Director
Paul Mauchline is a writer, lecturer, and expert on love and
relationships. Mr. Mauchline grew up in Canada and has traveled
throughout the world. An entrepreneur from age ten, he has owned and
operated many successful companies in North America over the past
three decades.
In 1995 Mr. Mauchline chose to leave his successful accounting and
consulting practice and focus his energies full-time on the vision he
wished to share with world, The Art of Loving™. He then moved to the
island of Providenciales in The Turks & Caicos Islands, a place that
he had visited repeatedly throughout the previous decade. It is from
this location that Mr. Mauchline has continued researching, writing,
and sharing his message on love and relationships. Today his vision is
now a reality in the form of articles published worldwide, lectures,
workshops, and this website. His expert advice and written material
are featured on many websites around the world. |
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SEX.... WHO HAS
TIME!!!
By Paul Mauchline
Of all subjects
that are discussed in the world each day, sex without a doubt is the
leader. Each day I talk to people about bringing more love into their
lives, improving their relationships, and the importance of learning how
to keep love in their lives. Those that attend my workshops and visit my
web site are interested in learning about these things and I applaud those
individuals who want to better themselves. There is one element though
that does not change during one of my seminars or someone visiting my web
site --- the discussion always eventually leads to sex and the web surfer
goes to the sex section of my web site seeking information.
Here are a few of the most common comments that I hear from people: They
have no time for sex. They miss not having sex. They want to know how to
improve their sex lives. They ask for ideas of how to find time for sex.
Sex has been missing from their relationship and they are looking for ways
to bring sexual intimacy back into their relationship. In my preparation
for this article I wrote down a number of titles based on this subject.
Why is it that so many of us cannot find the time for sexual intimacy with
our partners?
Why do we get tired to point of exhaustion?
Why do we loose interest in sex?
Why does sex have to be a feast at the beginning of a relationship - and
then famine over-time?
Why would anyone want to give up one of the most beautiful expressions of
love that one can give to themselves and their partner?
I could go on and on with questions about this issue, but I have to say
bluntly I don't buy this lack of time excuse. I also don't buy this I am
tired excuse. Quite frankly I do not buy any excuse unless it is a medical
problem when it comes to little to no sexual intimacy in a loving
relationship. Sexual intimacy with someone you truly love is one of the
most beautiful experiences you can share together. I fail to understand
why so many of us deprive ourselves from such enjoyment and pleasure.
We have all heard about having date nights weekly, get-away weekends,
afternoon encounters, etc. We all honestly know what we have to do in
order to get our sex lives back on track. I feel what it comes down to is
making the effort to improve the lack of sexual intimacy in our
relationships. Unfortunately in so many cases when someone lacks something
like sex in their lives, they in many cases will seek it elsewhere. The
end result to this lack of sex is affairs that damage and destroy so many
relationships and families each and every day.
My advice to all is throw away your excuses and become more proactive in
your relationships. As I tell everyone love requires, confidence,
concentration, discipline, imagination, and practice daily. To put it
simply --- Love Takes Work & Effort. Making a loving relationship grow and
continue to flourish requires time with one another. Make the time, and
make the effort to truly reap the rewards of a rising loving sexual
relationship with yourself and with a partner. |
